Wednesday 29 June 2011

Love VS. Convenience


Some people are together because of LOVE & some because of CONVENIENCE...


CONVENIENCE

U stay in a relationship with someone…

  1. Because U are financially dependent on her / him
  2. Because U don’t want to feel alone & miserable – she / he will always be at Ur disposal when needed
  3. Because U’re scared or too lazy to look for someone else
  4. Because U have many shared assets
  5. Because U share family & friends
  6. Because U don't want to go through the uncertainty or discomfort of a separation

LOVE

U stay in a relationship with someone…
  1. Because there is no one else U'd rather be with
  2. Even when it is not convenient & things get hard
  3. Because U can barely imagine leaving her / him

Ur in LOVE when U…
  1. Will do everything within Ur power to make it work
  2. Will do everything within Ur power to make her / him happy
  3. Will do everything within Ur power to create the best situation for the relationship to grow
  4. Allow her / him to be the best that she / he can be
  5. Always want the best for her / him
  6. Accept her / him for who she / he is
  7. Will forgive her / his past mistakes
 

LOVE is patient

LOVE is kind

LOVE is rational

LOVE is forgiving

LOVE is understanding


True LOVE exists when U LOVE each other even when it isn’t convenient…


If U had a choice to be with anyone & anywhere in the world, it would be with that person...

Without that feeling, there is no LOVE



H umaizieH assan
Credit to Amanda B   

Quote by Ted Mosby 5



U never know when U´re about to meet 
someone very important...

It´s not like life gives U a warning... 

U just look up & there they are...


The Duck Song 3

The last episode.... waddle waddle


The Duck Song 2

Again the same old lovable duck.... have you spot the message ?  :)


The Duck Song

This story has a deep meaning to it, try figure out what the moral is :)


Monday 27 June 2011

Random Quote of The Day...


Losing is a learning experience...

It teaches you humility...

It teaches you to work harder...

It's also a powerful motivator...
Yogi Berra

Quote by Zoey Pierson

 

Sometimes, things need to fall apart 

to make way for better things...

 

the eggs are already broken so let's make sure 

we make a pretty good omelette out of it...

 

Saturday 25 June 2011

My Humble Advice to Gals Out There ...


if the guy doesn't call you, 
he doesn't want to call you ...

if the guy is treating you like he doesn't give a sh**, 

he genuinely doesn't give a sh** ...

if the guy really likes you

he'll make time for you ...

if the guy is really serious

he'll make it happen ...

no matter what ...

Thursday 23 June 2011

Keep Calm... SABAR (^_^)

Don't talk when u're angry because u always say things u don’t mean when u're mad... If u're mad at someone, just stay quiet & calm urself first... Think clearly & then figure out what u really want to say to her or him...

I used to be a hot-head, spitting out words of anger every time I'm pissed off at someone or something... I can't really remember clearly, but there was this incident during primary school where I shouted at a friend... I lunged a full force attack of hurtful words & insults, things that I never ever meant... But as the Malay saying goes, "Terlajak Perahu Boleh Diundur, Terlajak Kata Buruk Padahnya"... & truly enough, I lost a friend that day  :(

After that I changed my ways, I quickly shut my pie hole & walk away whenever I'm mad or feel like exploding... I give myself time to cool off & rethink the situation... Alhamdulillah, I normally cool off pretty fast as I have my own psychological methods to assist me  :)

Sometimes...no, MOST OF THE TIME the issues are veeerrrryyyyyy petty & shouldn't be a reason to start a tantrum... masa tgh marah tu lah setan dok 'menyelinap' masuk ke saluran darah & hasut utk buat benda2 yg kita akan menyesal nnt  ;)

So whatever it is, jgn cepat melatah & most importantly bak kata Heliza dlm vid clip kt bwh ni:  

S... A... B... A... R...  

SABAR  (^_^)
 



“Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, bersabarlah dan kuatkanlah kesabaranmu dan tetaplah bersiap siaga (di perbatasan negerimu) dan bertakwalah kepada Allah agar kamu beruntung.” Ali-Imran : 200

Wednesday 22 June 2011

oLdiEs Part Deux

How shall i put this... well i was bored, very very bored so i dug up some old photos (again)....

Nostalgic ??? Yeah maybe a bit.... i believe that we are who we are today as a result of our past experiences.... even those itsy bitsy teeny weeny stuff matters, but we normally don't notice or just don't care to notice....

Me ??? I'm grateful for every single memory that i have, be it good or bad... Otherwise i won't be the same person that i am today... i'm not saying that i'm at the top of my game, but i'm getting there, InsyaAllah (^_^)

Posing kat bilik pengawas (2001)
Port kitorang ponteng kelas :p (2001)
English College Prefectorial Board (2001)
Class Photo... Form 4 kot
Anak-anak Tok Penghulu (ATP) - Program Anak Angkat Desa Tercinta Pontian (2002)
Performing "Keluarga Bahagia" (2002)
1st time makan Nasi Ambeng (2002)
Visit to Ladang Lebah, Pontian (2002)
Faci in Camp - Birthplace of RKU (2003)
War Game !!!
Askar-askar keletihan
Winners :D
Me, Dzul & Leman
With juniors @ Lambaian Danau Camp, Melaka
Final Pose ...
Performing a short sketch & song @ Program Anak Angkat Desa Tercinta Batu Pahat (2004)
We reptiles !!! (EduCare Fair 2005)
Some of my many accomplishments in UPG (University Peer Group)
RKU - Me, Faruq & Leman

Wednesday 15 June 2011

J.A..U...H....


JAUH itu ada ruang yang memisah...


JAUH itu dua insan yang terpisah...


JAUH itu ada rasa yang resah...


JAUH itu ada jiwa yang gelisah... 

 

Namun tak dinafikan...


JAUH itu ada RINDU yang tak sudah


Sunday 12 June 2011

Wish U Were Here...


 I wish you were here
Holding you in my arms
Keeping you so very safe
And out of harm

I wish you were here
So I could look into your eyes
Tell you that I love you
And make you believe that I tell no lies

I wish you were here
So I wouldn’t miss you so much
I wish I could see you
So I wouldn’t long for your touch

And I wish you were here
If only you could know
Because I’m loving you forever
And I’m never letting go 
by POTP

Saturday 11 June 2011

Allah Loves U...



Illness is not something to feel ashamed of...

It is not a sign of misfortune or defeat... 

Suffering is the fuel of wisdom, 
& it opens the way to happiness... 

Through illness, 
human beings can gain insight into the meaning of life...

Understand its value & dignity, 
& strive to lead more fulfilling lives...  

Friday 10 June 2011

Random Quote of The Day...


Ideal love is fostered only between two sincere, mature and independent people...

It is the inner struggle to polish these attributes that is the key...

Real love is not two people clinging to each other; 

it can only be fostered between two strong people secure in their individuality...

Wednesday 8 June 2011

Random Quote of The Day...


People do not grow when their environment is too comfortable, when they are not challenged ...


It is in the midst of hardship that strength of character is formed ...


Sunday 5 June 2011

Random Quote of The Day...

 

So, do you want to take a leap of faith ...

or grow old filled with regret ...

waiting to die alone ...

 

Saturday 4 June 2011

Quote of The Hour...

A peaceful life does not mean a life free of toil & suffering...

 

rather it means living without being swayed no matter what happens...

 

This is a state of true peace & happiness...


Random Quote of The Day...

If you failed yesterday, strive to win today....

 

If you were defeated today, strive to win tomorrow...

Thursday 2 June 2011

Quote by Ted Mosby 4

We spend so much effort trying to keep parts of our lives hidden, even from our closest friends,


that in those rare times when we do open up, it's amazing how minor those secrets all end up being...


Quote by Ted Mosby 3

Sometimes even if you know how something's gonna end,


that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the ride...


Quote by Barney Stinson 2


When I get sad, I stop being sad,


and be awesome instead... True story !